Living Single for 6 Years
At first, being single was terrifying! I hated the thought of having to go places by myself and seeing couples hugged up on each other, to see my friends in relationships, and to even not have plans on the weekend unless I'm third wheeling. I was becoming jealous of what others had, and searching for love in all the wrong places that I was falling for the words of what some dude may have been saying.
Now, I've been in very short-term relationships over the years but they never lasted longer than 3 months, so to me that's not considered a relationship but a waste of time! I'm definitely one of those people who hate wasting time on something I knew would not work so I knew it had to change, I had to change.
It took me 4 years to realize that I was not alone and to understand that I had a relationship with God and that was enough. The individuals I thought I needed to fill that void of love and acceptance for me was still goi